Once, a young man came to wise old man who lived in a village that is so peaceful. After a polite greeting, the young man expressed his aim. "I have traveled this far to find a way to make oneself always happy, always and make others happy."
Smiling wisely, the old man said, "Young man, people your age have a desire so, really unusual. Well, to fulfill your wish, my uncle would give four sentences. Take a good look ya ... "
"First, think of yourself as someone else!" Then, the old man asked, "Young man, do you understand the first sentence of this? Try to think carefully and tell the uncle what is your understanding about this. "
The youth replied, "If I can consider myself as someone else, then when I was suffering, pain and so on, with the hurt itself will be much reduced. Vice versa, if I had a great joy, to think of yourself as someone else, then the excitement will not make me forget myself. Is it true, Uncle? "
With happy faces, the old man nodded his head and went on to say. "The second sentence, consider the other person as yourself!"
The young man said, "With regard others as ourselves, then when other people are not lucky, we can empathize, even reached out to help. We can also recognize the needs and desires of others. High-minded and tolerant. Yes, Uncle? "
With his face brighter, the old man nodded his head again. He said, "Go to the third sentence. Note this sentence carefully, think of others as their own! "
The young man returned to express his opinion, "the third sentence shows that we must respect the privacy of others, keeping the rights of every human being with equal and parallel. Thus, we do not need to attack each region and hurt others. Not interfere with each other. Every person has the right to be himself. In the event of discrepancy or difference of opinion, each of which can be mutual respect. "
The old man said, "Good, very good! Well, the fourth sentence: think of yourself as your own! Uncle has completed all the answers to your questions. The last sentence is something that seems unusual. Therefore, think carefully. "
The young man looked puzzled. He said, "Uncle, after thinking about the fourth sentence, I feel there is a mismatch, even contradictory. How can I summarize the four sentences into one? And, it took how long to understand all the sentences uncle so I could always happy and also can make other people happy? "
Spontaneous, the old man replied, "That's easy. Reflect on and use your time to learn and a lifetime of experience. "
Thus, the young man went on his life and eventually died. After his death, people often call her name and talk about it. He got his nickname as: "The wise man is always happy and always spread joy to everyone who is known."
Readers are remarkable,
As social beings, we are required to learn to love life and interact with other human beings on this earth. As long as we are able to put ourselves, to know and be able to respect the rights of others, and understand the existence of its own identity at every level of life processes, then we will become a man of supple. That way, no matter where we get along with other human beings, will always timbuk warmth, peace, and joy. Thus, the happiness of life comes naturally ... incredible!
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