Love sometimes happy and sometimes also create a burden of prolonged heartbreak. Too quick to fall in love, sometimes often makes people do stupid things. Direct dating new people, so dreamy, and always justify selfishness compare thoughts on conscience.
So that you do not get stuck in the false love, begin to make some simple changes in your love life. If you have a positive goal and stop doing things that are negative, surely your love life will benefit.
Characteristic feature of the False Love And Love Fake Troubleshooting Tips
False Love 1
Ignoring the danger which was clearly visible. Have you ever said "He's great though heavy drinkers," or "She's very attractive, seems perfect for me, but he's a playboy."
When you fall in love is easy to overlook the basic problems that could threaten the future of a serious relationship.
Tips:
If there are things the principle that you feel, talk to him. Ask the questions. Consider whether the reasons he gives you can accept, reasonable, and will not be a problem for serious long term relationship. But if he is not interested to be bound by a serious long term relationship, leave him.
Maybe you still be friends, but do not waste time for someone like him. Open your heart to someone else, who knows without you knowing it, there are friends of friends or old friends who were interested and likes you.
False Love 2
Believe in the passionate love at first sight. Interest is so strong at the first meeting is fun, but love evolved along with time, and not through a single glance or two meals a night. When at the first meeting you have the slightest feeling interested, there is no harm in doing the next meeting.
Tips:
Remember, you can not judge someone new when I first met and became acquainted because usually someone is still awkward on the first date.
Love at first sight exists only in myth. Therefore, it is important to know and provide the opportunity for some people. Being open can be an important step to find the right partner.
False Love 3
He's always impose its will, so that you yourself become the oppressed either physically or feelings. And you always give in and succumb to her just to prove to him that you really love him.
Tips:
Soon you are unconscious of folly will love you. You always gave that does not mean he will understand the intent of your heart, that there is in fact you will continue to be targeted empuknya to justify all his will.
Berfikirlah fositif ... love does not exist to him alone, there are still a lot of true love is waiting for you in there, although it takes time to get the true love.
False Love 4
Easy fight with your spouse, but you still insist on maintaining that love. There was a small problem, the direct noise. Hard to communicate well. Difficult to understand and appreciate the difference.
Tips:
Keep the communication multiply, bicarkan things that trigger your argument, and need to remember ... the underlying problem solving should be the consciousness of the two sides want to win rather than the attitude itself.
If there is no consensus in terms of the permasalahkan, should desist course you love him, because love takes understanding .... not selfishness.
False Love 5
Falling in love with someone who is already bound. Can not be blamed if you fall in love with someone who is sympathetic, has a strong attraction, smart talk, and charismatic. But trust me. You will suffer when dating someone who is not tied to one hundred percent of your self and never there when you need it.
Tips:
No matter if you say that you do not need someone to be one hundred percent ready for you. Because in reality, you will still feel sad. Should expand the association, join discussion groups, or course of a field of interest. Open yourself to get acquainted with new people. You deserve to be loved, loved, and cared for.
When you fall in love, prioritize your priorities and stick to the principle that has been determined that you are not disappointed. Hopefully a few tips above can help you to be happy always with the He.
Sabtu, 17 Maret 2012
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